add support for vcxproj ExcludedFromBuild #20517

Job	Run time
build_make (ubuntu:24.04)	4m 9s
build_make (ubuntu:25.10)	3m 34s
build_make (alpine:3.23)	6m 30s
build_cmake (ubuntu:24.04, true, true)	5m 24s
build_cmake (ubuntu:25.10, true, true)	3m 1s
build_cmake (alpine:3.23, false, false)	4m 39s
	27m 17s

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