fix(tables): reliable stop-all, accurate "X running", and rate/usage … #17984

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Test and Build / Test and Build	4m 51s
Detect Version	5s
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Build ARM64 (GHCR Only)	0s
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Build AMD64 (./docker/app.Dockerfile, ghcr.io/simstudioai/simstudio, ECR_APP)	3m 54s
Build AMD64 (./docker/realtime.Dockerfile, ghcr.io/simstudioai/realtime, ECR_REALTIME)	46s
Build AMD64 (./docker/db.Dockerfile, ghcr.io/simstudioai/migrations, ECR_MIGRATIONS)	53s
Process Docs	0s
Create GitHub Release	0s
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